Being a Girl

I know being a girl is never easy, nor woman.

But, it will be easier if you let go the things or someone you aren't in love again. 

It will make you and their life easier.

If you just want to stay with them, don't take many advantages 

since you know they love you that much.

You will never know, someone's feeling over the one you take advantages.

Hope you will know the feeling, once you have children.

And if you aren't that cheap, guess you can just let them go. 

Or at least talk properly, since you are not their family nor their parents.

Hope you will know the feelings, once you become parents.

Somehow someone who really love you, but you don't, 

or you just take the advantages, you need to be careful 

since one day they will realize that you are not that good 

and they can find someone better.

Someone who will appreciate their efforts.

Someone who will talk properly to their partners.

Someone who will never take advantages from their partners.

Someone who will love their partners as much as their partners do.

Maybe we think the worst partner is the one who cheat over and over again.

But I guess, the worst and evil person is the one who take someone's advantages 

cause they know someone's feeling over them.

You know you are so cruel, and as a woman I dare to say that you are an evil.

And if you will marriage. 

Remember, you will also need to marry their family, not only your partners.

And hope you will realize soon and not being a cheap girl anymore.

p.s. : do not ever write down our family name again, you aren't our squads.

Maaf Tidak Bisa, Nanti dan Malas

Sorry I can't, Later, I Won't (lazy)

hai, misal kalian meminta tolong seseorang untuk melakukan sesuatu, menurut kalian dari judul diatas, mana yang paling enak didengar?

kalau menurut aku sih "Nanti yaaa..." dan "Maaf Tidak Bisa"

hai, imagine if you asking someone's help, and which above answers you wish to hear?
for me it is better "Later .." and "Sorry, I can't"

so, dari saya lahir, saya telah dididik oleh Bapak saya untuk disiplin dan sopan. yes untuk hal apapun. mulai dari yang ringan seperti makan tidak boleh mengecap, tidak boleh mengendus bau makanan didepan orang lain, selalu menghargai waktu dan tidak boleh bilang tidak bisa dan malas saat belum mencoba sekalipun.

oleh sebab itu hingga sekarang, saya akan sangat tidak suka kepada orang yang tidak disiplin dan sopan. minimal orang lain harus menghargai waktu, oleh sebab itu saya tidak pernah telat. kalau saya telat, atau membuat orang lain menunggu lama, saya pasti akan sangat kesal pada diri saya sendiri. that's why I hate to wait for someone, khususnya pada saat jam janjian yang sudah diinfokan pada sebelum-sebelumnya.

since I was a child, I was raised to be discipline and polite by my Father. from the easy one to hard one. like, do not smell the foods in front of people, always appreciate the time, don't be late, and do not ever say "Cannot" or "I won't" when you even never try yet.
that's why until now and I guess forever, I never ever like someone who is not discipline and polite. let's say, please please appreciate the time. that's why I never late to come to somewhere. when I late, I must be really mad with myself. I also hate to wait for someone, especially when they know the actual appointment time.

ya sebenarnya saya hari ini tidak akan membahas tentang menunggu atau ditunggu sih. 

Hari ini saya menulis tentang kata MALAS.

well, actually today I will not talk about wait and to be waited.
today I will talk about "LAZY"

Thank you 2015

for this post, I'd like to show to the world, how thankful I am for 2015.

I have so many dreams which has been came true, so let's start!

1. HOLIDAY
    so, on Februari 2015 was my first holiday with my own money ever. I went to a country near Indonesia. that was fun, because of my first time and my own money. I always love love love this holiday!

2. HOME
    yes, I finally have my own home. a cute home. my home is near Mekarsari Taman Buah, yes quite far from where I lived now. but, it is from my own pocket. I tried to collect the down payment money, and finally I had it. and now, I have to pay the installment until 15 years later. hhahahhahha quite long way to go tho. but, I'm so thankful.

3. BROTHER
    my Brother got scholarship in Marine School, I am so proud of him! he is the best after my Dad. you go Bro! I Love you, go get your dream.

4. YOGYAKARTA
    and finally after such a long long time not visit my hometown, I finally visit them with my family. Yogyakarta is such a beautiful city. quite and friendly city. I never get tired to visit Yogyakarta.

5. PROPOSED
    yes, my boyfriend proposed me on my birthday. I don't know why. it was so surprised. thank you for always believe and stay with me.

and other unbelievable story I cannot tell you. hehe :D

thank you 2015, and WELCOME 2016!

terima kasih Tuhan Yesus!

I love you.

Love Anything

haiii, selamat hari senin.

how was your weekend?

mine had so much fun. I lay down for a full day on Saturday in my home haha. and on Sunday, I met my best best best friends after that I dated with my boyfriend. hihi.

hari ini cuma mau ngepost beberapa gambar yang sangat menarik, dan mempunya makna yang dalam.

sumber gambar: Zen Pencils
enjoyed them!

 

gimana?? bagus yaa.

 udah itu aja. hehe. see you on my next blog post. LOVE!

What if you fly? ;)

so, my favorite quote is this one:

I was thinking that I couldn't do it that this those these things. 

but, then I remember I have God, so I start to believe that I can do this. 

Thanks God, now the things that I think I couldn't do, I can do it.

so, start to believe and try! Good luck and God bless!

I LOVE YOU

Happiest Girl is The Prettiest

I love this quote:

first of all, you should love yourself then you happy and you're gonna look so much pretty. 

this is why my main goal is happy, why I always wish everyone to be happy.

when you are happy, your life gonna be easier than you ever thought.

I WISH YOU ALL HAPPY!!

Just My Thoughts

Hai selamat pagi!

apa kabar? how was your weekend? hope it went smooth as your wished. :)

btw, dipostingan kali ini cuma mau mengeluarkan opini aja karena agak mayes denger cewek-cewek menye-menye ke cowoknya. mereka menye-menye karena abis ngeliat pernikahan Glen dan Chelsea.

no wonder, pernikahan mereka memang bagus sekali. tapi please stop push your man to have a reception like that. know your limit ladies. know your man's limit too. kasihan loh saya melihatnya. lagian semua orang punya mimpi, I know it because I have too. tapi jangan langsung lenjeh lah  melihat nikahan orang, jangan banyak mimpi. bagus kalau kalian atau pasangan kalian kaya dan gak pelit. lah kalau biasa aja? maksa beud buat nikahan yang cuma 2-3 jam aja.

mending kalian nabung, kali-kali bisa punya nikahan kayak gitu.

sekali lagi jangan maksa cowok dengan bla bla bla kalian itu. mereka pasti mau ngelamar kalian aja ngeluarin duit yang banyak. mereka pasti nyiapin mahar. mereka pasti pun pusing buat nyiapain biaya seserahan dan pernikahan kalian. well, at least my man did and doing that now. Semangat mas!. hihi

Stop Asking, Begin to be Grateful.

semangat semuanya. God be with you always!

First Post

Hai it's my first post.

standard banget sih ya judulnya dan isinya. hahaha

okelah sampai disini saja dulu first post-nya.

btw, today is H-366 days to come. I can wait and I also can't wait.
rainbow feeling.

you will know it later.

.kiss hug.